Keep Your Wives Close - They Cheat Too!

A friend of the family (man) is married with one child. He is a cheater. In an effort to keep the heat off of him and his extracurricular activities - this guy moved his wife and child to what they thought was a better life in another state. The deal was - was that he still had to run his business in the old state where they lived. It wasn't portable. He would have had to start all over again or hire someone to manage the business. Un - not going to happen! So he wouldn't be home several days a week....in the words of Scoobie Doo "Rut-Ro!"

This guy called his wife one night to speak to his 8 year old son. His son politely told his dad that his mom was in the bedroom with Mr. Bobby (name changed of course:), and that she couldn't come to the phone. So he asked who Mr. Bobby was and his son told him that he was mommy's friend who came by two days a week. The same two dayse -every week. And when he came by, he wasn't allowed to sleep with his mother (which he normally did).

Well - our friend of course is screaming "divorce" -- but you know what I was thinking...How dare you move your wife a few states away to keep your patootie out of trouble and want to scream divorce when she is acting out of desperation. She doesn't know too many people in the new area - and a lonely wife in a nice big house is a dream situation for some men.

So what am I saying here is men - keep your wives close! Because we are human too and there is but so much we can take. We don't care how extravagant the lifestyle is. Loneliness is not a normal human state of being. We like to be in partnerships and packs - not solo!

Ladies -- don't let this happen. You know what you are capable of not capable of. Of course you want the best life for your children (which motivated this guy's wife to go ahead with the move), but again, loneliness is a powerful state of being. Make wise decisions about your life and your marriage. Make sure they make sense.

-GirlShrink

*Coming Soon - The Revised Adultery Recovery Guide!

11 comments:

Oh Dear said...

Journal
24/10/2008

Found out today that my wife of 8 years has been having an affair.
Not something that I wasn’t suspicious of, but a bit of a shock anyway. She lost one and a half stone in the last few months, hair done more often than usual, nails done new clothes etc.
Started hiding her handbag when she came in the house, keep that pesky mobile out of the way.
Spent more and more time on her computer in my office.
Distant all the time, blamed it on work worries, not really fooled.
Dumped our boy off with her mother whilst I was abroad for a weekend. Made way for new man to use my house/bed/etc. Said she went to see friends but had no news when I asked her how they were, unusual for my wife.
Clues Clues Clues
Sat in my hotel room all night, tried to get the truth out of her on the phone and she drip fed me bits of information. Had to push quite hard though. I suppose she was trying to soften the blow, although most likely for her benefit. Let’s not be too guilty eh.
Had a look forward to the future. Now things look pretty bleak for me. My wife was the reason that I left my first 2 kids. And her actions are what is about to cause me to lose my third.
The affair details are a bit boring really, face book, old school friend, meet up, attraction, whoops.
Confrontation was funny, never lasts long enough, squirm squirm. Then heaps of apology peppered with lies and half truths.
So where does that leave me. Well first of all typing this shit at 04:00 to try and make sense of it for a start.
Blokes want two things. Firstly they want to be treated with respect and not assumed to be below intellectual par. So they need the truth. Tough one, but they do.
Secondly they want the power to still make choices; I nearly made the wrong choice tonight. Went to the Petrol Station and bought plenty plenty paracetamol. Didn’t take enough, but won’t have a headache for a while.

Option 1 - You see, my assumption is that because I am a man, I need to leave. So, goodbye 6 year old son, goodbye fabulous house, goodbye all my friends.
I’ll get out of the way so that she can ship in a new guy. That is my starting point,
Option 2 - Then I think maybe, sell the house, and split the dough. I will give my half to my three kids, trust fund etc. Then I will off myself. At least the kids will be ok for their future.
Now option 2 seemed about as good as I was going to get. Short future, but kids sorted,
In a bit of a state so need this doing quickly, can’t trust wife (QED) , so will have to hang around until the house is sold, equity distributed fairly to offspring, so need a quick sale.
Problem.
Wife wants as much money as possible so wants a slower burn sale. Will probably be thinking that the longer it takes the less likely me doing the deed as I will ‘get over it’ by then, Reality is she will prolong the inevitable and add to my misery, but at least she’ll make a few quid.

Now here is the benefit of thinking things through.
I provided 80% of the income to this marriage. I adore my children, I am popular, funny, and I was a good partner for thirteen years. I worked away from home to earn a top 1% income for the last 12 years. Returning at weekends and doting on my family. I have provided every bit of support for my whole family that anyone could ever have asked for and have never been violent, unfaithful or abusive.

Option 3
Now I am pretty well off and have very good earning potential
I can buy my wife out of the house in a moment
Guess who will fight this in the highest courts with the very best lawyers
Guess who’s going to bring up his son himself
Guess who’s going to relish his relationship with his daughters
Guess who doesn’t have to start again for a second time


So guess who’s moving out.

Ken said...

My wife has been more and more distant as time goes on. On day, I receive an email from her inviting me to join Facebook and be her friend. To me, that was very odd. Turns out, she didn't mean to invite me to Facebook. She just happened to add all the friends in her email account to friends list when she joined Facebook. I was one of them. But what neither I nor her, I don't think, were prepared for, was the dozens of other guys she's been communicating with too.

Probably for therapudic reasons, I started writing about it. You can read more about it at My Cheating Wife I hope it helps me writing about it. And maybe someone else can learn from it too. Cause you are right. Wives cheat too!

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